Comments on: Positive Guidance Tools of the Trade – Say What You Need to See http://notjustcute.com/2009/11/21/positive-guidance-tools-of-the-trade-say-what-you-need-to-see/ Ideas that are more than just cute, for preschoolers who are much more than cute too. Tue, 07 Feb 2012 14:19:09 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1 By: Time-Outs are for Coaching | Not Just Cute http://notjustcute.com/2009/11/21/positive-guidance-tools-of-the-trade-say-what-you-need-to-see/#comment-1824 Time-Outs are for Coaching | Not Just Cute Mon, 14 Mar 2011 07:13:57 +0000 http://notjustcute.com/?p=2095#comment-1824 [...] have to be specific and clear as we socially coach children.  If we don’t say what we need to see, children will have a difficult time making that conceptual leap on their own.  In general, I [...] [...] have to be specific and clear as we socially coach children.  If we don’t say what we need to see, children will have a difficult time making that conceptual leap on their own.  In general, I [...]

]]> By: No Spanking in Sweden « Not Just Cute http://notjustcute.com/2009/11/21/positive-guidance-tools-of-the-trade-say-what-you-need-to-see/#comment-377 No Spanking in Sweden « Not Just Cute Fri, 03 Sep 2010 08:07:59 +0000 http://notjustcute.com/?p=2095#comment-377 [...] Spanking not good practice and I agree with much of the philosophy behind the ban, but the ban itself is not something I favor.  Simply telling people what they can’t do won’t necessarily cause them to do what they should.  It’s the same when working with kids – you have to Say What You Need to See. [...] [...] Spanking not good practice and I agree with much of the philosophy behind the ban, but the ban itself is not something I favor.  Simply telling people what they can’t do won’t necessarily cause them to do what they should.  It’s the same when working with kids – you have to Say What You Need to See. [...]

]]> By: Ana http://notjustcute.com/2009/11/21/positive-guidance-tools-of-the-trade-say-what-you-need-to-see/#comment-376 Ana Sun, 22 Nov 2009 03:53:06 +0000 http://notjustcute.com/?p=2095#comment-376 “Don’t throw blocks!” = “Hey you! Throw blocks!” “Don’t run inside!” = “Hi there! Yes, you! Run inside!” Not hard to believe at all! I've always called it "don't deafness" meaning they just don't hear the "don't!" “Don’t throw blocks!” = “Hey you! Throw blocks!”

“Don’t run inside!” = “Hi there! Yes, you! Run inside!”

Not hard to believe at all! I’ve always called it “don’t deafness” meaning they just don’t hear the “don’t!”

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