First Friday Q&A : Dealing with a Defiant “NO”

So what do you do about a toddler who suddenly says “NO” to everything? Here are some of my thoughts featured in this month’s First Friday Q&A.

(Those who pay close attention will notice this growing baby boy is using up some of my lung capacity. :0)

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Fun Together: Dipping Valentine Treats

Mandy Ehman at Life…Your Way, is offering Valentine links all this week for you to enjoy with your families. Today, her feature is treats and crafts for kids, so I thought I’d share a fun kid-friendly treat I made with my boys over the weekend.  (Click here to see all of today’s links!)

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Weekend Reads 1.28.12

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Toddlers to Tweens: Relearning How to Play {Christian Science Monitor}

Don’t Call Introverted Children “Shy” {Time}

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Hip Hip Hooray for Valentine’s Day!

I find it interesting, given the interesting discussion on praise that we just had, that Valentine’s Day is creeping around the corner.  It may seem unrelated to some, but in my mind if there is one thing that is an even more powerful reinforcer for children than praise it is love.  Pure, unconditional love.  That can be shown through the words you say, the actions you take, and the time you spend together.

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Pondering Praise

Because I follow the brilliant Janet Lansbury on Facebook, I have come across several interesting posts about praise recently.  In one of those, Lisa Sunbury of Regarding Baby shared her thoughts in  Praise Not , a read I would recommend.  All this reading got me thinking about praise.

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Weekend Reads 1.21.12

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Can You “Enforce” Your Limits Without Force? {Aha! Parenting}

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Is that Fair?

“We treat everybody the same.”

It was an innocuous comment really.  Assuredly said with the best of intentions.

So why did it get under my skin?

Let me make a few things clear before I begin to blur the common definition of fairness.  I do think children need consistency and that they do rise to our (appropriate) expectations.  That said, however, I don’t believe that “fair” means everyone gets the same thing.  To me, “fair” means everybody gets what they need.

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Checking Out Preschools? Here are a Few Things to Look For…

It’s that time of year again.  Parents everywhere are standing behind one-way windows or sitting on child-sized chairs, trying to peek in on preschool classrooms and hoping to asertain whether or not it’s the right fit for their children. 

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