We’re Not Perfect…But Why Should that Stop Us?

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Each new year, as I think on new beginnings here on the blog, I feel this strange need to reassert that I am nothing special.  I am a far from perfect parent, teacher, researcher, and writer.

I am generally and generously flawed as a human being.

I don’t know why I feel the urge to make that disclaimer so frequently.  Why this need to make it absolutely clear that I am, so obviously, human?  The urge has been particularly strong this year, as our family is in the middle of an adventure….or in the middle of chaos, depending upon your perspective!

I think it’s because I work in this professional sphere of ideal theory and best practice, meshed with the Pinterest-perfection of the blogosphere.  I want to be able to share all the best that’s out there, without creating any false illusion that I am actually doing it all perfectly myself.

Then there are days when I not only feel the need to make the disclaimer, but to ask the ever-ready “Who am I?” question.

“Who am I to teach people how to be good parents?”

“Who am I to write about classroom practice?”

“Who am I to get up in front of an auditorium full of people and tell them how to be champions for childhood?”

“Who am I to do any of it, when I’m just me — perfectly imperfect me?”

I know I’m not alone in this.  I think the pandemic of perfectionism makes a valiant attempt to stop many of us in our tracks.

I hear it all around me:

My friend who worries as a blogger, about matching up with the strengths of her peers.

My friend who’s a health coach, who feels weighed down by guilt because she struggles as much as her clients do with food demons and negative self-talk.

My fellow moms who say we’re aware of the fact that we’re in charge of these little people, but quite honestly aren’t sure we know what the heck we’re doing from moment to moment.

We aren’t perfect.  Not one of us.

And that’s OK.

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Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!

Merry Christmas

It’s been a wild year!  The past 12 months have tossed our family quite a few transitions.  With a new job position for my husband, a new state for our family, and a new construction project to turn into a home (hopefully in the next few months, anyway), life has felt a bit topsy-turvy this year!

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Do Traditions Matter?

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I was thinking recently about my post, 147 Things You Don’t Need to Do for the Holidays.  I stand by what I said there.  We don’t have to do it all.  But I’ve been thinking also about how we may sometimes take simplicity too far.  That frivolity itself can have a purpose.  And it is this:  CONNECTION. 

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It’s OK NOT to Share: The Wrap Up Video and Exciting News!

Once again, I loved having a chat with Heather Shumaker about her fantastic book, It’s OK Not to Share and Other Renegade Rules for Raising Competent and Compassionate Kids (*affiliate).  As we wrap up the year’s read along, Heather talks about how to get started with the Renegade Rules, how to stay sane when you’re parenting in public, and shares some exciting news about her next book.  (I can’t wait for it!)

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It’s OK NOT to Share: The Wrap Up

read along sizedOne of the most amazing aspects of blogging has been the realization that there are REAL people behind those author bylines on articles, posts, and books. Getting to know those real people is one of my favorite parts of this blogging gig! Heather Shumaker has been no exception — an absolute delight! Her book, It’s OK Not to Share and Other Renegade Rules for Raising Competent and Compassionate Kids (*affiliate link) is amazing, but getting to discuss each section with her has been no less so!

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Books Plus! Literacy Inspired Gifts for Kids of All Ages

A book is my favorite thing to give as a gift, especially to a child!  And one of my favorite ways to package that gift is with another connected item that will extend the experience and the meaning.  I put a few of my favorite books together in this format last year (find that list here).  Between the positive feedback on that first list, and my own delirious love of books, the list has really grown this year, spanning from board books to activity resource books.  There’s really something for every age!

(This post contains Amazon affiliate links.  Click on titles to find each book and/or item.)

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Weekend Reads 11.22.14


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The Motherhood Days We Don’t Talk About That Much But We Should {Finding Joy}

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Book Review: 150+ Screen Free Activities for Kids

Asia Citro of Fun at Home with Kids has compiled a fantastic new book, and it couldn’t have come at a better time!

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With one little kindergartener home from school with a cough, we were in that “too-sick-for-school but feeling-to-good-to-just-rest” spot.  Even my five year old has his limits when it comes to how many episodes of Backyardigans he can take in one day.  Luckily for us, Asia’s book, 150+ Screen-Free Activities for Kids (*affiliate link) was sitting on our kitchen counter.

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