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But I’ve Told Him A Million Times: Why A Child’s Defiant Behavior Isn’t Always What You Think It Is

November 15, 2017 by notjustcute Filed Under: Child Development & DAP, Positive Guidance and Social Skills, Uncategorized 4 Comments

I have my finger in many technology-laden pots.  But technology is NOT my jam.  This site where you’re reading this, the Facebook page where you likely found it, the podcast you may have listened to, the resources you may have used — these all require SOME degree of technical acumen.  And it is honestly the hardest part of the work I do.

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Social Competency or Competition? What Young Children Really Need.

March 3, 2017 by notjustcute Filed Under: Child Development & DAP, Uncategorized 1 Comment

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When Rae Pica asked if I’d like to join her and Ellen Booth Church for a discussion about the balance between cooperation and competition in our early childhood environments, it didn’t take me long to reply that I’d LOVE to.

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Nine Words to End Fights Over Toys

January 13, 2014 by notjustcute Filed Under: Positive Guidance and Social Skills, Uncategorized 33 Comments

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“Use your words.”

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Hot Topic: The Bullying Equation

October 9, 2013 by notjustcute Filed Under: Child Development & DAP, Positive Guidance and Social Skills, Uncategorized 11 Comments

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“There will be no bullies here because there will be no victims.”

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First Friday Q&A: How Do I Help My Child to Be a “Good Loser”?

September 6, 2013 by notjustcute Filed Under: Child Development & DAP, Learning through Play and Experience, Uncategorized 2 Comments

First Friday Q&A from Not Just Cute.  How do we help kids lose gracefully?  Who couldn't use this?

No one likes to lose.  But when kids losing a board game or a round of kick the can evolves into kids losing their tempers, throwing tantrums, and dissolving into tears, there are some things we can do.

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Teaching Kids Problem Solving with a Great Book!

May 22, 2013 by notjustcute Filed Under: Building Readers, Positive Guidance and Social Skills 2 Comments

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  I’ve got a thing for well-illustrated books that really capture the endearing quirkiness of kids.  That’s the first thing that made me love Ladybug Girl and Bumblebee Boy* by Jacky Davis and David Soman.  But as I read it to my 4-year-old again tonight, I realized what a perfect book it is to illustrate the social problem-solving kids need to do almost every day.  Something he had done today, in fact.

Just this afternoon, he and his brother were at odds about how to play together.  As they got flustered and frustrated and began to grouch at each other, I stepped out to intervene.  In a split second, I had to decide whether to intervene by settling it myself, or by taking the time to teach them to own their problems and problem solve together. 

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First Friday Q&A: What to Do About the Whining and Complaining…

April 5, 2013 by notjustcute Filed Under: Positive Guidance and Social Skills 6 Comments

A tricky question from a reader asks what to do about an emotional three year old who prefers crying over trying.  The video can also be found on YouTube.

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Because I Love You

October 16, 2012 by notjustcute Filed Under: Positive Guidance and Social Skills 15 Comments

My husband is a natural when it comes to principle-based parenting.  (That should be a whole post in itself.)  Rather than laying down all the rules, he’ll state the principle and ask our boys how they propose we should go about implementing it.  Here’s how that went down recently.

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Teaching Social Skills with Bubble Lessons

September 28, 2012 by notjustcute Filed Under: Learning through Play and Experience, Positive Guidance and Social Skills, Uncategorized 12 Comments

I’m a believer in teaching social skills.  If you’ve checked out my ebook or ecourse, you already know that.  I’m also a big fan of learning through play.  No surprise, right?

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Mind in the Making: Chapter 2

March 6, 2012 by notjustcute Filed Under: Child Development & DAP, Positive Guidance and Social Skills, Uncategorized 5 Comments

I came across a quote from Aristotle recently, that sums up Chapter 2 of Mind in the Making.  “It is the mark of an educated mind to entertain a thought without accepting it.”

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In early education, there is too much distance between what we know and what we do. I bridge the gaps that exist between academia, decision-makers, educators, and parents so that together, we can improve the quality of early education while also respecting and protecting the childhood experience.

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