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Dear Sweet Puddin’head

June 24, 2010 by notjustcute Filed Under: Learning through Play and Experience, Snack Time 136 Comments

I’ve been working on some pretty comprehensive posts lately, so I decided it was time for some fluff.  LITERALLY.

I give to you, one of the simplest and most versatile recipes in my repertoire, Puddin’head.  This tasty stuff results from the combination of pudding and whipped topping.  We’ve used it for quite some time in our house, as a frosting spread on cakes and piped onto cupcakes, a substitute for plain Cool Whip in desserts like this chocolate trifle, a hot chocolate topping, or a tasty filling in crepes or on waffles along with some fruit.  After referring to it for too long as “that yummy pudding-Cool Whip stuff”, my husband finally gave it its Twain-esque moniker, and it has stuck.

This recipe is so simple, your little ones will love to help you out with it, and will likely volunteer to lick the spoon as well.  The directions are simple and completely open to tweaking.  All you do is mix one vanilla pudding packet (*instant*) with half of the milk called for on the package.  Whisk until it begins to thicken.  Then fold in one container of Cool Whip  (*Note: I’ve also used heavy cream, whipped, in the place of Cool Whip.  DELICIOUS!).  That’s it!  Use it in one of the many ways I described above, or eat it straight from the bowl.  (I won’t judge you!)

After sharing this recipe with people they usually ask what sizes to use.  The answer – it doesn’t really matter.  I’ve used one large package of pudding and one large Cool Whip,  two small puddings and one small Cool Whip, one small pudding and one small Cool Whip, and virtually ever other combination you can imagine!  It’s always good.  More pudding in your proportion means more flavor and more density.  But it’s always good.

As I said, tweaking is not only allowed, it’s encouraged.  I’ve used vanilla pudding, French vanilla, and even chocolate.  All delicious!  I’ve also blended cream cheese in with the pudding portion of the recipe.  Also tasty!  You can add coloring if you need to and it still works- and tastes – fantastic.

One puddin’head use I really love this time of year is as a filling for ice cream sandwiches.  Dollop or spread between two graham crackers, place them on a sheet and set them in the freezer.  Once they’ve firmed up, you can transfer them to an airtight container, separating layers with wax paper.  It’s a cool and tasty summertime treat!  Get fancy and press sprinkles into the sides or dip half of the sandwich in melted chocolate.  Whatever makes you happy!

So kick back, relax, and add some fluff to your day!

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  1. Nollie says

    June 24, 2010 at 9:11 pm

    I can vouch for the delectability of Puddin’ Head, one of our favorite treats that we learned from Mandy. I can never resist just eating it straight out of the bowl. Another use for it is as a light dessert for parties, but dressed up to look fancy. I prefer chocolate, served in individual clear plastic cups with fresh berries, chocolate shavings, or crumbled (or whole) Oreos and a dollop of Cool Whip on top.

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    • Sherry says

      April 3, 2012 at 8:52 pm

      I used this recipe to make eclaires with and it was fantastic.

      Reply
    • CLAIRE WOOD says

      April 30, 2018 at 12:59 am

      I have used this wonderful and versatile stuff since the heydey of the “Watergate Cake”which used pistachio pudding; this was the frosting recipe for that cake.
      I have made it with French Vanilla, Chocolate, Pistachio puddings. It is my go to frosting for coconut cake! I had not thought of it as a trifle layer but now I want to whip up a trifle to check it out!!! Nice change from plain pudding and much fancier!!
      I think the pistachio pudding came out in the 1970s, so this has been around a long time!

      Reply
  2. Amy says

    May 31, 2011 at 11:36 am

    What a great idea! We will try it!

    Reply
  3. Maria says

    June 2, 2011 at 8:52 am

    Can you do this with low fat milk?

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    • notjustcute says

      June 2, 2011 at 2:00 pm

      Absolutely! In fact, I often use skim. Just be sure it’s instant pudding — I didn’t pay attention once and ended up with cook and serve. Didn’t go so well……

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      • Stephanie says

        December 14, 2012 at 8:57 pm

        It should be noted in the recipe at the beginning that you need to use instant pudding. Otherwise you end up with pudding soup.

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        • welda says

          April 9, 2013 at 6:54 am

          it is

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      • Yolanda says

        April 9, 2013 at 4:12 pm

        Can this recipe be made w/ sugar free pudding?

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        • notjustcute says

          April 10, 2013 at 10:55 am

          I haven’t tried the sugar free mix, but I assume it would work.

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        • Julie says

          April 6, 2022 at 2:37 pm

          It works very well with SF pudding. I’ve mixed this up for years to make a fruit dip on the side of fruit plates that I take to gatherings.

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  4. Joy says

    February 2, 2012 at 1:51 pm

    You than must have to keep this in the fridge…if it is cookies or on cupcakes ect…which I don’t always have room in there…is it okay for the kids to carry to school, it does not get runnier? Thanks pls e-mail me. 🙂

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    • notjustcute says

      February 2, 2012 at 3:59 pm

      I emailed as well, but for those who may be wondering, I do usually keep these in the fridge. They can sit out on the counter during a party, but I doubt they would hold up well traveling to school for lunch. Perhaps inside a plastic cup to protect it, with an ice pack or something else in the lunch box to keep it cool. If it ‘s for a school party, they should be fine sitting out for an hour or two. They really don’t get too runny unless it’s a really hot day, but I just think they taste best chilled, and knowing there’s milk in it, I’m never fond of leaving them out very long. Hope that helps!

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      • Debbie says

        April 9, 2012 at 7:43 am

        I found it best to put the icing in a plastic ziploc baggie to pipe on the cupcakes as needed. That way, my cupcakes can stay in a container on the counter and I keep the frosting in the frig and add when someone wants one – taking up much less precious refrigerator space! 🙂 Also, as far as kids taking them to school, maybe try freezing the cupcakes the day before and they will probably thaw out by lunchtime! 🙂

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        • Kathy says

          April 15, 2013 at 11:11 am

          That’s an excellent idea!

          Reply
  5. Joy says

    February 2, 2012 at 1:51 pm

    You than must have to keep this in the fridge…if it is cookies or on cupcakes ect…which I don’t always have room in there…is it okay for the kids to carry to school, it does not get runnier? Thanks pls e-mail me. 🙂

    Reply
  6. heather says

    February 2, 2012 at 3:24 pm

    how much cream cheese did you add to it?

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    • notjustcute says

      February 2, 2012 at 4:01 pm

      You know, this is one of those recipes that I play around with all the time, and it’s always good! I’d start with about 3 oz of cream cheese and then go from there. It depends on how stiff you want it and how much cream cheese taste you like. Mmmm. Now I’m getting hungry! Enjoy!

      Reply
  7. Janet says

    February 2, 2012 at 9:14 pm

    This recipe is wonderful to frost an angel food cake too, and you can add berries right before serving…..YUM!!

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  8. Michelle says

    February 5, 2012 at 7:22 pm

    I’ve made several versions of this myself, and like the author said, it’s always good 😉 I’ve done the ice cream sandwiches as well and those are just delicious!

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  9. Cathy says

    February 5, 2012 at 9:19 pm

    I use 2 pkgs of vanilla pudding or french vanilla, 2 cups of Cool Whip, 2 cups milk and 1 cup of sour cream to make a Boston Cream filling for a cake, but I love the simplicity of yours! Gonna try it out!

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    • Amanda @NotJustCute says

      February 6, 2012 at 8:23 am

      Mmmm, sour cream. Never thought of that! I’ll have to try it!

      Reply
  10. Linda says

    February 5, 2012 at 10:18 pm

    what size pudding mix and what size of cool whip? Please reply.

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    • Amanda @NotJustCute says

      February 6, 2012 at 8:25 am

      Really, it works with just about any combination. I usually use the larger box of pudding and the smaller (8oz) tub of Cool Whip. (Remember to use half of the milk called for on the pudding box.)

      Reply
  11. Heidi says

    February 6, 2012 at 2:58 pm

    Our family has made the switch from cows milk to almond milk… Hoping it will work too! I assume it will, it’s been fine in all the other ways I’ve substituted it. I might just be using this to frost my birthday cake this weekend!

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    • Lisa says

      June 7, 2012 at 10:40 am

      We’ve switched to almond milk also- Did it work out in this recipe??? I know this post was from 3 months ago, but happy birthday! 🙂

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      • NR says

        November 3, 2012 at 8:40 am

        I’ve noticed on the Instant pudding box, it says the pudding will not set if used with soy milk. I drink soy but luckily my husband drinks dairy so I was able to use his carton… anyway, since the pudding apparently doesn’t set with soy, it’s possible it doesn’t set with almond milk either. That might affect the frosting so I would test it out before serving!

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        • Klaudia says

          December 23, 2012 at 7:45 am

          There is a product called “clear gel” a vegan thickener that can be used with cold foods. When making pudding in my house with either soy, almond or coconut milk I add about a Tbs. of clear gel per small box of pudding, and it sets up just fine. If you’re making cook and serve pudding use arrowroot or cornstarch instead. I would recommend that you mix the clear gel powder with the pudding mix prior to adding your choice of “milk”.

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  12. Annie says

    February 7, 2012 at 6:43 am

    This is such a great idea! My favorite flavor pudding mix to use in desserts/trifles/etc is Cheesecake. I can’t wait to try it with this recipe. Thanks for sharing!

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  13. Melanie says

    February 9, 2012 at 4:07 pm

    If you ever make a texas sheet cake (or we call it sour cream chocolate cake)…this is the BEST frosting for that….we also call it magic cake because it magically disappears….next time you make it you should frost it with this…it is very good

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    • Amanda @NotJustCute says

      February 9, 2012 at 5:47 pm

      Mmm, yes! We use it as the preferential frosting for ALL cakes at our house! It’s particularly great with chocolate!

      Reply
  14. Paula says

    February 10, 2012 at 8:12 am

    I use a similar thing as banana pudding base: 8 oz softened cream cheese, 1 pkg cheesecake pudding, 1 cup heavy cream and a tub of Cool Whip. NOM.

    Reply
  15. Tammy says

    February 10, 2012 at 4:24 pm

    Layer graham crackers and puddin’ head 3x over, refrigerate 24 hours, top with chocolate frosting = eclairs … YUMMY!!!!

    Reply
  16. Miss Tori says

    February 11, 2012 at 8:21 pm

    Next time you make this, use white chocolate instant pudding instead of vanilla, the extra creamy cool whip, and add a small jar of Kraft marshmallow cream, to create a berry trifle using a variety of fresh berries and cubed angel food cake.

    Reply
  17. Mary says

    February 15, 2012 at 10:21 am

    I’m super excited to make this tomorrow! Gonna use cheesecake flavored pudding and put it on chocolate cupcakes! 🙂

    Reply
  18. Allie says

    February 17, 2012 at 1:05 pm

    anyone know how you can use Reddi-Wip instead of Cool Whip??? Pretty please? We don’t eat cool whip because of all the chemicals in it but Reddi-Wip or even real whipped cream with splenda would work. I’m just several mathematically challenged. Would squirting Reddi-wip into the equivalent size of empty tub of cool whip work? Hmmm…. If you want to see what I mean about cool whip look at this 12 day experiment for cool whip: EEEK!!! http://www.jonathanfields.com/blog/horrifying-12-day-cool-whip-experiment/
    All of these ideas for pudding “frosting” are awesome! 😀

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    • Amy K. says

      February 18, 2012 at 9:47 pm

      Our “fancy” grocery store carries a cool-whip substitute called Tru-Whip (http://www.truwhip.com/index.php for info, including a store locator) that does not have all the chemicals. I haven’t tried it yet, but I would think it would work better than Reddi-Whip.

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    • Amanda @NotJustCute says

      April 9, 2012 at 10:13 pm

      I made some recently with some whipping cream that had been whipped until thick with some powdered sugar and vanilla. I was tempted just to add the milk, cream, and pudding mix and whip it all, but chickened out. I assume it would work though. For the cautious though, it does work to whip each separately and then fold together.

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    • Joe M says

      August 5, 2012 at 1:38 pm

      If you are concerned with using cool whip (I don’t use it either for the same reason) you should also be avoiding “splenda”. It’s just as bad. It’s sugar bombarded in a lab with chlorine which changes it’s moecular structure……yummy!
      Just a thought

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  19. Ali says

    February 20, 2012 at 9:07 am

    Best idea ever!!!

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  20. Sue Amrhein says

    February 20, 2012 at 6:50 pm

    I also make this yummy…and sometimes I mix some can pumpkin for another GREAT flavor. With very little guilt!

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  21. Emily says

    February 21, 2012 at 7:29 pm

    I just baked a chocolate cake so I could use this recipe as frosting! I can’t wait to try it! 🙂

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  22. Rachelle says

    February 24, 2012 at 5:19 pm

    how long will this keep? Can I freeze it or keep in fridge? Let me know! Thanks!

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  23. Jennifer says

    February 27, 2012 at 3:51 pm

    I’m making cupcakes with yellow cake mix and pumpkin mix. Going to frost with this!

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  24. Amy says

    March 2, 2012 at 3:47 pm

    From the mouth of a pregnant woman, this might be the most delicious thing I’ve even straight out of the bowl.

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  25. Joni Beecher says

    March 17, 2012 at 8:21 am

    How do you make it last long enough to go on a cake or cookies? I guess you dont have a recipe for will power do you? 🙂

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  26. Michelle says

    March 19, 2012 at 11:59 am

    What size pudding do you use for the one container of cool whip?

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  27. Teresa at MomsWhoSave.com says

    March 20, 2012 at 11:22 am

    Sounds delicious! Thanks for sharing 🙂

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  28. candy says

    March 23, 2012 at 7:59 am

    I just made this frosting with vanilla pudding and cool whip. I thought it tasted good, but it tasted a lot like cool whip, lol ANd my husband is’nt to fond of the taste of it, so I added about a tablespoon on powder sugar and it taste very good. It’s in the fridge now, I’m hoping it gets a little thicker when it’s chilled… Thanks so much for the recipe

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  29. Meghan says

    March 24, 2012 at 9:44 pm

    wow this is seriously brilliant! just one question though- how well does it pipe onto cupcakes? would you recommend chilling it in the fridge to thicken before piping or is it a good texture for piping right away?

    thanks for sharing, can’t wait to use this!

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    • notjustcute says

      March 26, 2012 at 11:08 am

      It pipes on great! I usually then put them in the fridge to keep them from getting too soft when they’re not being served, but they are fine sitting out for the party as well. Like most frostings, if the bag sits in your hand too long, the frosting is heated and that can change the texture. I try to work quickly so my hands don’t melt the frosting in the process! Enjoy!

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      • Meghan says

        April 1, 2012 at 4:56 pm

        thank you so much!

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  30. Denice says

    March 27, 2012 at 7:50 am

    Chop up a butterfinger candy bar and add to this. Yummy.

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  31. Mathtchr says

    March 31, 2012 at 3:49 pm

    I make the same thing to use in chocolate eclair cake, which is just graham crackers layered with the puddin’head filling, except I add some sour cream to it instead of cream cheese to give it a little tang. I never thought of using it as frosting. That is a great idea! And it really is good straight out of the bowl!

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  32. Brenda Delk says

    April 4, 2012 at 5:44 am

    I use this to make banana pudding. One large box instant vanilla pudding, one container cool whip (med), bananas, vanilla wafers. Just layer pudding, bananas and wafers. My kids favorite. Thanks for the other ideas to use this for.

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  33. Gretchen says

    April 5, 2012 at 3:26 pm

    Would this work with sugar-free pudding?

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    • Melinda says

      June 20, 2013 at 6:38 pm

      I used sugar free fat free vanilla pudding and sugar free cool whip and let it sit over night in the fridge. I frosted cupcakes the next day and it was very good!

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  34. Tinsley says

    April 7, 2012 at 7:50 pm

    When you pipe this pudding whipped topping on cupcakes, does it keep it’s shape or does it fall after a few mintues? Email me please!

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    • Tinsley says

      April 7, 2012 at 7:52 pm

      Nevermind – i just read another comment anwsering my question! GREAT idea from one blogger to another!

      Reply
  35. MAB77 says

    April 7, 2012 at 8:44 pm

    I made this for my twin boys’ second birthday cupcakes. It was AHHH-MAZING!!!

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  36. Juliana says

    April 9, 2012 at 7:00 pm

    Hi! I tried a similar recipe today (hadn’t found this one yet) and it said to mix the pudding mix and the milk in a bowl. So I figured, cold milk, no need to cook which seemed wierd. It tastes good but it’s fairly runny. A bit too much so I wasn’t able to frost the cake, but rather put some on each slice as I served it. Anyway, I don’t know if it’s a dumb question but, I’m guessing I was supposed to mix the pudding and milk while warming the milk so it actually thickens?

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    • Trimble says

      April 9, 2012 at 9:27 pm

      Did you just use half the amount of milk the pudding called for? Sorry to butt in, just thought that might’ve been your problem.

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    • Amanda @NotJustCute says

      April 9, 2012 at 10:09 pm

      Make sure that you are using instant pudding (and yes, use half of the milk called for). If you use cook and serve, you will have to cook it until thick and then cool it fully before combining it with the Cool Whip. Hope that helps!

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      • Juliana says

        May 25, 2012 at 10:57 am

        Thanks to both, I’ll try it again and see if I get better results!

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    • Sandra says

      April 8, 2013 at 12:57 pm

      Did you use the instant pudding or the cook type by mistake?
      This sounds like it could become my favorite frosting and filling!

      Reply
  37. Trimble says

    April 10, 2012 at 7:52 am

    Can Lite Cool Whip be used or will it be too runny? I accidentally bought that. 🙁

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    • Amanda @NotJustCute says

      April 10, 2012 at 8:28 am

      Should be fine!

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  38. kandacejones says

    April 17, 2012 at 10:21 am

    I made this like the original and added strawberries and topped a strawberry cake with it. DELICIOUS!

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  39. chrisel says

    May 4, 2012 at 6:49 pm

    I make a similar icing with a box of pudding mix, 1 1/2 c. milk, 1 tsp. vanilla + 1 envelope Dream Whip.
    Whip with electric beater until nice and fluffy.

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  40. Lorrie says

    May 5, 2012 at 1:42 pm

    I just made this with a 10 oz container of Truwhip and large box of Oreo instant pudding – delish!!
    This is the first time I’ve used Truewhip instead of Coolwhip, although it’s expensive ($4.59 @ Shaws) it’s definitely worth it! It tastes great and without all the chemicals and HFCS.
    Thanks for such an easy and versatile recipe!

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  41. Mindi-jo says

    May 23, 2012 at 10:36 pm

    Do you have to keep this icing refrigerated? Like normal whipped creme?

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  42. Lisa says

    May 27, 2012 at 6:53 pm

    Wow, I just made this with banana cream pudding. It was fabulous! Thank you for sharing this recipe. I was going to have plain old strawberry shortcake, but decided to have angel food cake with strawberries and this wonderful new recipe on top. It was delicious!

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  43. Laura says

    June 6, 2012 at 7:47 pm

    I was just wondering if this is an okay consistency for frosting layer cakes. Does it hold up between the layers, or is it too much like pudding?

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    • notjustcute says

      June 7, 2012 at 8:59 am

      Hi Laura-
      It depends on the cake. I wouldn’t recommend it for something that bears a lot of weight and has to sit for a long time (like a wedding cake), but it would probably be fine for a single layer cake for a more informal gathering. You might have to just play with it and see how it works for you. (I have added cream cheese before to make it more sturdy and used it in a three layer – but single tier – bridal shower cake…)

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  44. Jan says

    June 14, 2012 at 10:42 pm

    could not believe the repititive questions…. and then I just scrolled down….so if this is a repeat I apologize…. I use Soy Milk, and am assuming it will work as well? Big catch here….just joined Weight Watchers and not too sure about that but it sure sounds good…. Is there anyway I could use it for WW?

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  45. jan says

    June 17, 2012 at 8:54 am

    I tried this and mix in some Strawberry yogurt and used cheesecake pudding,…YUMMMM

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  46. Kati says

    June 19, 2012 at 12:22 pm

    Did you use a small pkg of pudding and large cool whip?

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  47. mrsblocko says

    June 29, 2012 at 8:28 am

    I have never heard of this delicious manna from heaven. I made this and turned them into ice cream sandwiches. (Wrote about it here.) I can’t wait to test out other pudding flavor combinations! Thank you so much for posting the recipe!

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  48. Brandy says

    July 8, 2012 at 12:05 pm

    This sounds heavenly. My husband is diabetic and we are always looking for good recipes that good for both him and myself, and this sounds easily adaptable to a sugar-free version. We will be trying it tonight!

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  49. Maelee says

    July 10, 2012 at 9:16 pm

    This looks delicious. Was reading through the comments and noticed some folks brought up that they are doing sugar alternatives, cool whip alternatives. I’m not sure. However, I did come across a recipe from Chocolate Covered Katie where she takes a can of Thai Kitchen Organic Coconut milk…opens the can, leaves it in the refrigerator for 24 hours to thicken and then whips (http://chocolatecoveredkatie.com/2011/08/16/vegan-cool-whip/). Maybe this would work? I don’t have an occasion to try this yet but definitely am considering putting the two together!!! Either way, it looks AMAZING!

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  50. Michele says

    July 28, 2012 at 5:15 pm

    I made a lemon cake yesterday and used this frosting for it. I used lemon pudding instead of the vanilla and everyone liked it. I may use the bigger package of lemon pudding next time, instead of the small one, or I may even try adding a tiny bit of lemon extract for extra lemon flavor, but overall it was yummy and I liked having a lighter frosting for my cake.

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  51. Shelley says

    August 8, 2012 at 3:08 pm

    Did you use a small box of pudding and a small container of Cool Whip?

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    • notjustcute says

      August 10, 2012 at 5:07 pm

      I usually use a large box and any size Cool Whip, but you really can play with the proportions — You can’t really mess it up!

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  52. Michele says

    August 9, 2012 at 8:50 pm

    How solid does it get if you freeze it? I was thinking of making this with either chocolate or Oreo pudding and putting it into Popsicle molds to make a pudding pop. Will it freeze well like that?
    Please reply

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    • Amanda @NotJustCute says

      August 9, 2012 at 9:18 pm

      The consistency when frozen is very much like a pudding pop. I’ve used it that way in the past!

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  53. Amy says

    September 7, 2012 at 1:02 pm

    Looks good! I am going to try it for my boy’s birthday party tomorrow! Thank you!

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  54. stacy says

    September 11, 2012 at 6:32 am

    I was wondering what you thought of frosting a icecream cake with this. I want to create a cake for my son’s birthday

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    • notjustcute says

      September 11, 2012 at 7:08 am

      I’ve actually used it for that before and it is delicious!

      Reply
  55. angela says

    September 20, 2012 at 10:43 pm

    i usually throw in 2tblspn of milk and 8oz of coolwhip per one package instant pudding. if whipped enough the frosting wont be grainy and its perfect for holding up for roses and whatnot. LOVE IT!

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  56. PS says

    September 26, 2012 at 9:32 pm

    If I use whipped cream instead of cool whip,will it hold it’s shape?

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  57. Suzette Roberts says

    October 4, 2012 at 12:16 pm

    This is divine Amanda! We are going to indulge over the weekend! Thanks for sharing!

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  58. Adeline says

    October 11, 2012 at 2:14 pm

    Made this, only i used the small box of pudding. I should have probably used the bigger box. But it tastes incredible. My daughter loved it. She kept saying mhmm. She is my most important critic, if she doesnt like it, than its no good. But she loved it. I am very happy w it. Thanks for sharing it. I am always trying new recipes for icing a cake and this one will fall under one of my favorites.

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  59. Kait says

    October 28, 2012 at 2:15 pm

    I am interested in using this frosting for cupcakes. My husband would be transporting the cupcakes to a school party for our little one. If the finished cupcakes are refridgerated the night before, right up until transport, will they hold up? Could I use tartar in the recipe to firm it up ?

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    • notjustcute says

      October 29, 2012 at 10:30 pm

      They should hold up as long as they don’t get too warm. I hadn’t thought to try cream of tartar. It’s worth a shot, I figure!

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  60. Mabel says

    October 31, 2012 at 7:58 pm

    I made this icing with chocolate pudding and put on a chocolate cake it was gone by nights end. My children loved it. Thank you

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  61. northern cottage says

    November 6, 2012 at 1:48 pm

    i just happily blogged about you and this yummy yummy yummy frosting…thanks a ton for sharing!

    check out the post here:
    http://www.northerncottage.net/2012/11/banana-bars-with-whipped-frosting.html

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  62. Jodi says

    November 12, 2012 at 9:32 am

    Do you think puddin’head would work well as a fruit dip? Do you recommend something else for fruit dip?

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    • Jean says

      November 13, 2021 at 12:42 am

      In regards to a fruit dip, if Puddin head won’t work, the deli I worked at used to mix a big tub of cool whip, and a big canister of fuit yogurt, usually raspberry! Customers loved it, but we never told anyone what was in it!

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  63. Janet says

    November 19, 2012 at 3:20 pm

    I use the same recipe for cream puffs. Really good and freezes well too.

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  64. pati says

    December 5, 2012 at 1:41 pm

    I used lemon pudding on a yellow cake. .YUMMMM

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  65. Bess says

    December 5, 2012 at 4:16 pm

    You can make something like this with just Cool Whip and the pudding mix. Just combine the dry pudding with half the Cool Whip and mix thoroughly then stir in rest of Cool Whip. this is great for a two layer cake.

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  66. SHIRLEY says

    December 7, 2012 at 1:02 am

    I FIRST USED THIS IN 1956. A FRIEND SERVED IT. SHE BAKED AN ANGEL FOOD CAKE AND THEN
    DIVIDED IT INTO 3 LAYERS. SHE USED THE COOKED CHOCOLATE PUDDING, AND WAITED FOR IT
    TO COOL, THEN ADDED THE COOL WHIP. SHE SPREAD IT BETWEEN THE LAYERS, AND THEN OVER
    THE WHOLE CAKE……………………IT WAS GREAT.
    I HAVE ALSO USED THE LEMON,AND STRAWBERRY PUDDING. THIS RECIPE NEVER GROWS OLD.

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  67. Annabelle says

    January 21, 2013 at 1:59 pm

    I think I’ve read all the comments and I still can’t find a simple answer.
    Please, if this is made as a frosting for cakes/cupcakes etc can the leftover cake be saved on the counter or must it be refrigerated? I would think they would need to be stored cold.
    Also, if put in cream puffs and frozen how long should it be left out before it should be served?
    Can’t wait to give this a try. Thanks for posting such a winning recipe.

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    • notjustcute says

      January 21, 2013 at 2:14 pm

      I usually store it in the fridge if it’s for any extended amount of time, but I also leave it out on the counter during parties/etc. while it’s being served and it has been fine for a few hours. Obviously, if it’s hotter out you’ll have less time before it starts “melting”. Enjoy!

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  68. Tara says

    January 28, 2013 at 10:05 am

    I grew up eating this on cakes and love it. But I am wondering if anyone has tried tinting it with either liquid food coloring drops or paste? I need these to be blue and yellow of a cub scout activity and dont want to make 48 cupcakes and then find that is separates or something. Any suggestions or opinions?

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  69. Kim says

    February 18, 2013 at 5:38 pm

    ahhhhhhhhhhh where do I get the recipe? Sounds and looks great.

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  70. Cindy Harrell says

    March 4, 2013 at 9:39 pm

    This is my recipe,that I make for my Banana pudding.Along with some sugar.It is so good,and rich.Cindy In Fla…

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  71. Amy E says

    March 25, 2013 at 6:43 pm

    I just read another recipe that added 1/4 cup powdered sugar. Has anyone tried that?

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  72. Stacey says

    March 29, 2013 at 12:58 pm

    I’m making this for my son’s birthday party tomorrow and am so excited to try it! When you use the heavy cream (instead of cool whip) do you add any suger to it? Thanks!

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  73. margaret says

    April 1, 2013 at 4:15 pm

    What type of pudding mixture do you use instant or the type you cook?

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  74. christine frye says

    April 2, 2013 at 3:13 pm

    can u tell me how many calories are in this iceing for am on a 600 calories diet paln right now

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  75. Richard says

    April 6, 2013 at 7:15 am

    I’m interested in the cake icing using the vanilla pudding mix. Is that instant pudding or regular? Thanks!

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    • notjustcute says

      April 6, 2013 at 1:20 pm

      Instant works best, Richard. Enjoy!

      Reply
  76. Marilyn says

    April 11, 2013 at 3:08 pm

    Two questions…..
    1 – could I use coconut milk
    2 – could food colouring be added if not
    could Jell-O powder be used to colour….
    I want to make for a kids party and want a variety of colours….
    By the way… I really enjoy your site….

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  77. Marilyn says

    April 11, 2013 at 3:15 pm

    I’m sorry just read the blog…. got answer to the food coloring… but would the coconut milk be to runny..? and also Jell-O powder used…

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  78. Sharon says

    May 11, 2013 at 2:51 am

    Hi, over here in Italy this cream is used a lot for pastries and it’s called crema Chantilly 🙂

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  79. Dawn says

    May 19, 2013 at 3:46 pm

    Put your pudding/cool whip frosting on a rich chocolate cake. After a homemade hamburger, potato salad & baked beans lunch, it was the perfect dessert! My granddaughter complimented the frosting before the cake….lol!!! Thank you for sharing…..it was really an awesome ending to a wonderful meal!

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  80. Tiffany says

    August 22, 2013 at 2:26 pm

    does this hold up well outside–similar to better cream whipped frosting? I’m hosting an outdoor party and am considering using this. I’m not a fan of typical icing, but this looks AMAZING + easy! Perfect combo! 🙂 My email is tiffandmeg@gmail.com. Thanks so much!!

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    • notjustcute says

      August 22, 2013 at 5:28 pm

      It holds up relatively well. Almost any frosting will wilt in the heat, and I haven’t really had this sit outside long, but I have had it on cupcakes sitting on my kitchen counter during a party and they were great. I’d say your chances are best if you give it time in the fridge to set up before taking it outside. Maybe do a practice run….I’m sure no one at your house would mind having to eat the experiment!

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  81. Carole says

    December 27, 2014 at 4:01 pm

    could I use this on a bunt cake? Just letting it drizzle all over the cake

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    • notjustcute says

      January 13, 2015 at 1:38 pm

      There is virtually no wrong way to eat this stuff! :0)

      Reply
  82. niki says

    February 2, 2015 at 9:35 am

    Hello. Going to try this recipe today, but would feel bettering you could tell me the size of cook whip you are using or a measurement of cream? Also is this icing OK to make a head if time..like a day or two, or same day you need it. Thanks! 🙂

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    • notjustcute says

      February 6, 2015 at 7:12 am

      Hi Niki! I’ve used a lot of different sizes of cool whip, and it’s always good! I think my favorite is the large box of pudding with the small tub of Cool Whip (8oz). I wouldn’t recommend making it too far in advance, as it begins to set up a little as it sits. It works best if it’s put on a cooled cake right after the frosting is made. The cake itself can be good for a few days. I hope that helps! Enjoy!

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