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The Powerful Purpose Behind Playing Pretend

January 29, 2016 by notjustcute Filed Under: Building Readers, Child Development & DAP, Learning through Play and Experience 2 Comments

One of my favorite moments during my last Powerful Play workshop was talking with the table of teachers who were doing their in-depth study on dramatic play.  With wide eyes and excited tones they made connections between the play they saw in the classroom and the developmental benefits of playing pretend.

“Susie” played hospital for weeks after her brother was born.  “Bobby” had themes of death woven through his play for a month after going to his grandfather’s funeral.  “Lisa and Lori” spent most of their dress up time negotiating themes and characters.  And the concept that pretending is actually part of  building the foundation for reading — that one sparked a major a-ha moment.

Seeing how excited they became as they unpacked all of this, reminded me of why I love what I do.  And made me want to give the same experience to you.  So here’s a repost from the archives, originally posted in 2010.  A primer on the purpose of playing pretend.

Share your observations of powerful play in the comments!
pirateMany parents have come to their child’s preschool teacher with the same concern.  “It seems like my child plays dress-up all day at preschool.  What could he possibly be learning from that?”  The question is understandable – what does he learn from leaping around with his cape fluttering behind him?  And yet, the question is somewhat ironic, as these very parents likely spent much of their childhood engaged in the same kind of play. [Read more…]

Why Play Pretend When We’re Trying to Build Readers?

November 7, 2014 by notjustcute Filed Under: Building Readers, Child Development & DAP, Learning through Play and Experience, Uncategorized 6 Comments

Pretend Play and Reading

I noticed my 2 1/2 year old walking around the back yard the other day with a small rectangular rock nestled in the palm of his hand.  I watched as he excitedly moved it around as he energetically bounded around the lawn, obviously in his own world.  I wondered where his imagination had taken him.  Then I heard the giveaway:  “Boop! Boop!”  He was holding the rock out, extending his arm toward a ride along car in the yard.  “My boop-boop!”  He said as he looked up with a huge grin of satisfaction, having clearly just set the alarm on his toy car with his own personal key fob.

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It’s OK NOT to Share Section 4b: Kids, Power, and Action (Part 2)

May 13, 2014 by notjustcute Filed Under: Child Development & DAP 12 Comments

weapon play

Weapon play.  Gender-Bender play.  These are the play themes that press against our comfort zones and challenge our perspectives.

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Let’s Play Birthday Party!

April 13, 2013 by notjustcute Filed Under: Building Readers, Celebrate!, Learning through Play and Experience, Uncategorized 10 Comments

Every birthday is monumental in a kid’s eyes.  Even pretend ones!  “Birthday Party” is one of my favorite dramatic play themes to set up, and the kids love it too!  Melissa & Doug know a thing or two about kids, play, and birthdays, so they’re sponsoring this post as a part of their Ultimate Birthday Bash.  (They’re also hosting an amazing giveaway, so be sure to check out those details at the end!)

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First Friday Q&A – Should I Be Concerned About My Son’s Imaginary Friend?

January 11, 2013 by notjustcute Filed Under: Child Development & DAP, Learning through Play and Experience, Uncategorized Leave a Comment


(This video can also be viewed on YouTube here.  Do you think YouTube intentionally chooses the most awkward point of the video to use for the freezeframe?)

Many of the resources on imaginary friends center on a study published in Developmental Psychology (Vol. 40, No. 6).

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Tents, Forts, and Hideouts: Special Spaces for Kids

May 14, 2012 by notjustcute Filed Under: Create, Learning through Play and Experience 8 Comments

As I mentioned in the Playful Learning Spaces Giveaway (and yes, there’s still a little time left to enter) there is a strong impact in a thoughtfully prepared space.  If you want your children to be playful, it helps to create an environment that invites children to play.  I can think of few invitations to play that are more compelling than a special space like a tent or a hideout.  You can set one up, say nothing, and almost instantly you’ll have children dragging blankets and animals in for a jungle tea party, darting in and out as they dream up dramatic adventures, or cozied up inside with a good book.

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Felt Food Fun

November 10, 2011 by notjustcute Filed Under: Create 4 Comments

I’m over at Childhood 101 today with some fun ideas for making felt food.  Maybe it will give you a few ideas for some Christmas surprises!  Here’s a taste:

Image: Shelley Inspired

My children love to play with their food.  That is, they love to play with toy food.  We have a small set of inexpensive plastic food, but lately I’ve felt like it’s time to expand the menu.  In my search for new cuisine, I’ve decided that making some felt pieces might be a great route to take.  Felt food pieces offer a different sensory experience than the typical plastic pieces.  They can be both realistic and charming.  Avoiding paints and other aspects of manufacturing can also contribute to the piece’s safety.

I began scanning the internet for a few ideas and was bowled over by inspiration!  I thought I’d share a bit with you as well. [Read more…]

Presenting: DIY Puppet Theaters

July 25, 2011 by notjustcute Filed Under: Building Readers, Learning through Play and Experience, Uncategorized Leave a Comment

Today I’m over at my friend Steph’s place, Modern Parents Messy Kids, sharing some fun and easy ways to create your own puppet show theaters.  Here’s a taste:

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The Simplest Way to Face Paint

July 8, 2011 by notjustcute Filed Under: Create, Learning through Play and Experience 10 Comments

Due to the enormous amount of fun we’ve been having with face painting around here lately, I thought I’d let you in on a little secret I learned about a decade ago while teaching at the lab school.  If you purchase an inexpensive set of  Watercolor Colored Pencils you can use them for face paint simply by dipping the tips in a little water before drawing.  I really can’t think of an easier way to do it!  For me, it’s less complicated to use the pencils to draw and there’s far less mess than creamy palettes.  They’re easy to store, last forever, and are ready to use at a moment’s notice.  Once the drawing dries, it’s pretty durable as far as rubbing goes, yet to remove it all you need is a wet washcloth.  This just might be the best bang I’ve ever gotten out of six dollars!

Here’s just a sample of where these pencils, plus a little imagination, have taken us in the past few days:

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First Friday Q&A: Weapon Play and Young Children

July 1, 2011 by notjustcute Filed Under: Child Development & DAP, Positive Guidance and Social Skills 21 Comments

This Friday’s Q&A is a hot topic.  In response to a reader’s question about handling weapon themed play among preschoolers, I’ll discuss the importance of fantasy play for children and how we can come up with reasonable, enforceable boundaries.  Of course, this is a question with answers that come from a variety of perspectives, so please respectfully share your insights in the comments as well.  Here’s the video (also found here), followed by excerpts and links to some interesting resources on the topic :

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